Thursday, May 04, 2006

So Would You Even Care?

Women are such deceitful creatures, aren't they? You never know what they're thinking, as if what they say always have double-meanings.

Where you going for tommorrow? Where you going with that mask I found? And I feel, and I feel; When the dogs begin to smell her; Will she smell alone?

I come home, fucking tired and fucking depressed. I still make a goddamn effort to call you up then you have the goddamn NERVE to fucking blame me of shit I didn't do?!? What the fuck is that?

And I feel, so much depends on the weather. So is it raining in your bedroom? And I see, that these are the eyes of disarray. Would you even care?

Yeah, all this love and romance shit isn't all that it's hyped up to be. It's a lot of work, and you don't even have a fucking snort of a guarantee that you got the right one! They always have these hang-ups about you not having enough time, or always obssessing about details ~ but looking at that, it's always a damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't situation. You respect her space, she'll say you're not paying enough attention; you constructively criticize her faults, she'll snap about being too tight-fisted.

And I feel that time's a wasted go. So where ya going to tommorrow? And I see that these are lies to come. Would you even care?

It's their job to piss you off, man. They'll keep you hanging, enticing you, by feigned sweetness, and maybe a romp in the sack, but that's only because they need something from you. Whether it's a wife, girlfriend or prostitute, it's all the same ~ you pay for them one way or another.

Love? It's cool to be in love, yeah?

20 comments:

Salubri said...

that is soooo grim.

what makes it even more grim is that it's all soooo true. lolz.

Pinoy Wargamer said...

I'm just a straight up dog yeh?

So if you're a dame and you got to read that and it stabbed your sensitive nature, go ahead and cry. Cry and go look for an idiot prince charming who'll come to your rescue.

Kyuzo said...

kung may page5 ang lovelife ni shink1m, this is it! =P

Pinoy Wargamer said...

LOL!

Well, anyone with a brain can see that I'm generalizing. More to the point, it doesn't apply to JUST women only. Men can be as hearltess and as devious, some even on worse standards.

Pero nakakaasar diba? Eto ikaw, nagsisipag at kinakalaban ang tukso sa kaliwa't-kanan, ikaw na kahit na alam mong papagalitan ka ng boss mo dahil bigla kang lumabas para lang makatawag sa cellphone at marinig lang ang boses ng iyong gerlpren, bigla namang babaliktarin ang sitwasyon at maghahanap ng flaw sa kinalalagyan mo at ie-expound pa! Malamang iba sa inyo kaya magpaka-martyr at palalampasin lang ang ganun. Ako hinde! Hindi na!

Kung ayaw makinig at ayaw makipag-compromise at ayaw umintindi ng kinalalagyan mo, leave da bitch! Kung sa oras na mag-boypren pa lang kayo at ganun na ugali nyan, sigurado mas malala na yan pag asawa mo na!

Kaya sa mga ganung pagkakataon at napupundi ka na sa patung-patong na katarantaduhan na pinaglalagyan nya sayo, panyero, isipin mong mabuti at itanong mo sa sarili mo kung kaya mo mabuhay ng ganyan sa araw-araw LOL!

Pinoy Wargamer said...

LOL Quotable.

We've all become idiots. And despite Page 5, we all willingly go back to being lovestruck by some pretty chick EVEN after you already realize you've become an idiot.

Yeah, the human race is nothing without idiocy.

Pinoy Wargamer said...

Poor sods. And they believe they'll get what when they die for the Emperor?

Salubri said...

actually... anyone living in the dark and dreary world of 40k would be rushing towards the conspcription for the guard as it is a legal way to commit suicide. lolz.

[We've all become idiots. And despite Page 5, we all willingly go back to being lovestruck by some pretty chick EVEN after you already realize you've become an idiot.]

love is like looking for the perfect shade/tint of yellow. sobrang daming mali bago mo makita yung tama and when you find the one you're looking for, 10 years later you realise it wasn't so perfect anyway. but what is life without all the warm colors to balance the cool ones eh?

this post reminds of the story of lucius vorenus from the rome miniseries. straight arrow of a guy. 10 years service in the legion, never touched another woman(and mind you he was serving with the julii as they conquered gaul. spain, france and medieval britain.). comes home to find niobe, his wife pregnant by another man.

wtf...

Pinoy Wargamer said...

10 years eh? Now he's gonna go like, "I turned down the advances of that rich Italian's daughter for THIS?! And that Egyptian queen, too! My God, I'm such an idiot!"

Distance and time. It works for some, it doesn't for others. You willing to sacrifice everything with the hopes the other half will do the same? And yeah, the both of you might stick it out after years and meet up, but will you be the same people like you were when you met? What happens if she disapproves of the career you enjoy in? Or what if you disapprove of her bitchy friends?

Compromise? Easier said than done.

The idiocy that is humanity.

Pinoy Wargamer said...

In my so and so years, there are many times that I THOUGHT I found the right one. Then inversely proportionate are the times that I regret having done so.

My solution, evidently, is apathy. The best person you can give 100% of yourself is ONLY yourself. Everything and everyone else is only ranked beneath my own priorities LOL! Go against that rule, then expect to get hurt over and over and over.

Kei said...

so bitter yet so true... but then again it's not a constant so there may still be hope... but then again, there may not. What I'm just saying is people love and get hurt not because of some masochistic tendency but rather they need to (at one time or another)be with someone they can be a complete idiot with even if they may regret it after. As House said, "We all need the curry."

Pinoy Wargamer said...

Right on the nails' head. The need to belong is causality LOL!

Pinoy Wargamer said...

In certain instances, there is distance between the two of you. And at the rare times that you are together, she goes on bitching about small things, or spend time talking to people she spends time with regularly instead.

Makes you feel tremendously special, yeah?

Pinoy Wargamer said...

That, Garr, is the great uncertainty. Your post makes absolute sense. But then, you hear this saying: If you truly love someone, you accept him/her for who she is, all her traits, be it perks or flaws. You lower your pride for the sake of making it all work. And when you do, you live happily ever after.

*smacks own forehead with right palm*

Obi Macapuno said...

kaya ako fling fling lang muna. sa totoo lang tagal ko nang walang gf. gusto ko kasi ang susunod e sya nang huli. kaya kahit abutan ako ng ilang taon para mag filter ng "nararapat" e gagawin ko. (parang aga mulach magsalita ampucha wahehehe)

seriously, id rather wait than blunder along the way, besides true love's worth waiting for.

back on topic: page 5 right on the face!!! and no matter how anyone will rebut with stuffs like "don't generalize", I can't agree less with your point! if iL be living the rest of my life with the wrong girl, then id rather follow the likes of the Running Priest.

Amen.

Pinoy Wargamer said...

Flings, Ob? I'd prefer flings with "benefits" if I got my way LOL!

Seriously:

[quote] It's their job to piss you off, man. They'll keep you hanging, enticing you, by feigned sweetness, and maybe a romp in the sack, but that's only because they need something from you. Whether it's a wife, girlfriend or prostitute, it's all the same ~ you pay for them one way or another. [/quote]

Hence I disagree with the traditional wife-stays-home-while-husband-works-his-ass-off-to-provide-for-family. Women want to be treated equally, then they should act it. And on the flipside, men should learn the ins and out of housekeeping, too. Both work to earn and provide food on the table, and both keep the house nice and pretty and liveable and fun.

If things don't fall like that, PAGE 5!

Pinoy Wargamer said...

Time to play Devil's Advocate:

Let's say you are goody goody and refused to partake in pornography or pick up easy women, or even just go through many girl friends ~ all for the sake that you're saving yourself for "THE ONE".

Then you meet THE ONE. You put forward your best foot and sweep said maiden off her feet with your genuine love and respect for her.

THEN you hit the sack and perform horrendously.

Thus after years of marriage, you find out that THE ONE is actually fooling around behind your back.

THAT's what you get for being goody goody LOL!

NOW don't get me wrong. I ain't saying be a pig overnight and start harrassing your co-workers. All I'm saying is that even knights in shining armor look a little better with a shade of grey.

Obi Macapuno said...

in the end, it's a choice of...

a) acting goody goody and give you're all to someone you think is the "One"

- if it worked, JACKPOT!
- if it din't, then you lose BIGTIME.

b) playing it safe, leave something for yourself

- if it worked, e di GOOD
- if it din't, not much DAMAGE on you

c) or fake it altogether the two-timing bastard you are

- if it worked, ya got TWO maidens... or more
- if it din't, so what? you CHOSE this "path" anyway, suffer the consequence.

Point is... love is taking risks, to risk or not to is your choice and whatever that will come out of it, welcome the consequences with your balls high like the guy you are. You chose it anyway. Hehe. But IMHO iL thread in the middle... balancing act baga. For now. :D

Badbeef said...

Women wants affirmation.
regardless of what we do.
they will always question.
it be there nature..

- it is but a smoke screen to hide their insecurity and there need for affirmation that we love them.

Gelo

Pinoy Wargamer said...

The want for affirmation, I believe, goes both ways. It irritating at a certain extent. And worse, when your time comes for the want of affirmation, they (well, from my personal experience though) drop the ang-drama-mo-naman line.

Blissful ignorance. If it's late, it's free.

Pinoy Wargamer said...

Longest thread ever on KB ^_^ Thanks for all your two cents, guys. I was hoping some female would post her thoughts about this issue, but I guess we scared them all away LOL!